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Not
Tonight, Dear!
(For Women Only)
Larry James
Making love is very important to a man. It makes him feel
wanted.
If you do not feel like making love, it is okay to say "no"
to sex, but make sure you say "yes" to loving him.
Sex is acceptance for a man. It is a primal urge.
When he suggests sexual intimacy, it is important for you
to receive him in some way whether you choose to make love
with him or not. Men do not take sexual rejection very well.
Hold him close. Let him know you will make love another time,
but right now you only want to feel him close to you.
A man will often have a tough time accepting that it is not
HIM you are rejecting. It is important for you to know this.
Demonstrate your love and affection for him in other ways
to reassure him. Both of you may take sexual rejection personally
when it is a reflection of some tension between the two of
you.
Men also love women who love to make love. If you enjoy having
sex with him, this is the moment he needs to hear it.
P.S. - Have you heard about the new product,
Sexcedrin? It's a bedroom aerosol spray. More effective than
Excedrin® in treating the, "Not tonight, dear, I
have a headache," syndrome. ;-)
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Copyright
© 2004 - Larry James. Adapted from the book,
"Red
Hot LoveNotes for Lovers: The Importance of Great Sexual Communication
and Other Essentials for Extraordinary Hot Sex!."
• If you would like to
talk one-on-one with Larry James about relationship issues
related to this article, you are invited to arrange for a
private coaching session by telephone. Go to Personal Relationship
Coaching for specific details.
| Copyright
© 2004 - Larry James. Reprinted with permission. - This
article is adapted from Larry's books, "How to Really
Love the One You're With: Affirmative Guidelines for a
Healthy Love Relationship," "LoveNotes for Lovers: Words
That Make Music for Two Hearts Dancing" and "Red Hot LoveNotes
for Lovers." Author Larry James presents seminars nationally
for singles and couples. Subscribe to Larry's FREE monthly
"LoveNotes
for Lovers" eZINE. Contact: CelebrateIntimacy.com,
P.O. Box 12695, Scottsdale, AZ 85267-2695.
LarryJames@CelebrateIntimacy.com - CelebrateIntimacy.com
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